illegitimate and legitimate children born that have succeeded in their education that foster children have no contact with their fathers and take it also as a matter of course that their fathers to take monthly charges for the upkeep of their children, making it often impossible to establish their own new future.
A special Christmas greeting to all official Instistutionen as youth services, and their representatives, various social workers, the politically correct and completely in accordance with the mainstream only to the welfare of mothers und Kinder gekümmert haben, mit dafür gesorgt haben, aus falscher Angepasstheit heraus, dass die Kinder im Leben der Väter keine Rolle spielen und die Väter keine Rolle im Leben der Kinder, außer natürlich als Zahlväter, ich weiß wovon ich schreibe, und wenn aus welchen Gründen auch immer der Unterhalt nicht gezahlt werden konnte und kann, wird nicht gefragt warum, sondern gleich gedroht, mit Lohnpfändung, sich nötige Informationen beim Arbeitgeber einzuholen usw...Keiner fragt danach, wie Du dich als Vater dabei fühlst, wie es ist, mit dem Gefühl zu leben, bei finanziellen Problemen gleich an den Pranger gestellt zu werden, gleich damit rechnen zu müssen, dass der Arbeitgeber in die privatesten Affairs will be involved in, like the reputation is damaged, and .... in an ever more difficult labor market
Many a worker is lost for this reason has been working relationship, because he was terminated ... because more and more employers have neither the time nor the resources and capacity that is really sad to deal with personal problems of workers ... sometimes simply not interested, that should there be ... the fact is, then immediately falls away a maintenance payer father, then laments the lack of payment discipline of the fathers, if described in the post, so treated, is out of my sight out .... no wonder you can insult, mopped, want to be ignored, vilified, harassed, hated your child may be angry with you, you can be aware of the child alienated from the child may have nothing to do with you, simply have to pay me, but you need and how humiliating and hurtful this For many fathers, no one asks ...
I have deliberately written from the Perspekive one of the men with the perspective of women and children and the same deal Problme probably be enough "so-called experts" often one-sided as often .... also plays a misunderstanding of emancipation role, which is practiced at the expense of children and fathers .....
The problems our society now with Jugendichen has, have now provided in the policy for a change, unfortunately, much, much too late, many fathers are strangers, with illegitimate children they had, until recently, no custody, were tolerated, visitation rights every 14 days, if at all, Dad for cinema ... but share in the upbringing of rights on important decisions, no, not that they had, and it is depressing to have no rights, on the good will may still need to be one because of the separation resentful mother, who is certainly all just not objective and fair in the assessment of the Father, so belated revenge will be taken, backed by our system .. shame about the kids, bad for the missed opportunity the fathers ... Too bad for many, as I would like to have real, not only tolerated at any time by the possible withdrawal of the child carried over responsibility ...
I had helplessly watched as the mother of my child just moved from a to b, without having been involved with ...
There was a possibility of contact with the child, years ago, I would have in the youth office under the supervision of a social worker can contact a social worker contact with my daughter, critically observed, if I even get it right, make the child accept me, who was married man must be in a marriage with children born to endure .. does anyone know how down stufend something is dass es so etwas nur für unehelich geborene Kinder gibt....Kontakt zum Kind unter Aufsicht, ohne Anlass, einfach so...
Warum bekommt nicht jeder Vater, egal ob die Kinder ehelich oder unehelich geboren wurden, zunächst einmal die Chance, ohne Aufsicht Kontakt zu seinem Kind aufzubauen?
Gibt es Besser oder Schlechter Väter, Väter 1. Klasse und Väter 2. Klasse?
Meine Tochter wird im kommenden Jahr 18 Jahre....ich habe ausreichend Gelegenheit gehabt mich mit der Thematik zu befassen...
Mich tröstet ein besonderer Umstand: Ich habe zwei weitere Kinder mit aufziehen dürfen, ihr "Stiefvater" sein dürfen, und beide sagen heute noch Papa zu mir.
Menschen machen Fehler, Frauen machen Mistakes men make mistakes, children make mistakes, but some mistakes are punished more severely ........
A review of food for thought is, to the controversy, I do not claim to be right, only entitled to be allowed to describe my impressions .....
Thank you. Merry Christmas .... peaceful, quiet, restorative days to all visitors of my blog ..... and a good healthy happy 2011. Greetings Randy Treutler
photo of 2009 .. .. I was smoking since early August this year, I am absolutely clean ... no nicotine, no alcohol, no drugs, no mind-altering drugs ... nothing more ... better not walk me because ... the nicotine withdrawal is severe, have long, smoked a long time, almost 40 of 52 ... not always addictive, initially puffed, but 35 years addicted to smoking ... I could not cigarette no longer at .... I do think more and more experience, you can let go of everything and at some point I need it ... because my death is my constant companion ... when he arrives, which is still open ... but then I have to let go the last thing I do not have a gift but sometimes, not always, enjoy my life, this little life in the midst of 6 billion lives .... accompanied me for a while ...
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