Daily we are through the media by hatred and destructive violence, we can not understand, swamped normal. We are then often stunned and wondering how such a thing can be. What is happening only in their minds when they set fire to cars, foreigners rushing through the streets, reduce beat defenseless victims, and even take into account their death? How many times have you heard of a killing spree? How long ago was it until the last bomb threat? These messages are constantly in the media up and down. But how does it happen that a person to such an act is capable of doing?
It was often thought and research. Finally they came to the conclusion that everything depends on various factors such as disorientation, unemployment, bad parents, etc. These influences are quite obvious but an essential aspect has been largely ignored here, the emotion!
is not much known about the emotional inner life of man. It can not be equal in numbers, facts and character Theories fix. Scientists prefer the people in a largely dry statistics to describe, which are pressed into existing hypotheses
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I am of the opinion that play in dealing with strangers and emotions such as sympathy and antipathy, love, fear and anger a central role. For our decisions and we have only a few milliseconds if we consider a person sympathetic or unsympathetic. And you all know how hard it is to deal more closely with someone that you are suffering from the beginning could not. Prejudices are preprogrammed so much, because we is an appearance or a particular social The direction of trying to discern the true character. Of course, certain prejudices of the vote in various forms such as certain behaviors. Someone who is Muslim, is to eat a large extent avoid pork, but someone who does not eat pork because he does not taste good, must not simultaneously be a Muslim. Although these practices give roughly a certain direction, yet our decisions depends largely on the emotions.
But how is the hatred of all? Basically arises from hatred as any other emotion from different roots. A little it is already related to what we in the cradle was laid. Every person is born has noticed certain temperaments. Whether a toddler anxious, curious or open to meet the world can not affect you, but we know in dealing with the social environment, new feelings. can
A factor for increased expression of hate would be the emotional withdrawal, the spread in childhood. Many try to withdraw itself from the problems and want to allow so few emotions as possible, so they do not show weakness. That is, many do have feelings, but hide them - but that may take revenge, they express sich dann womöglich als Aggression aus. Dies kann man sich ungefähr so vorstellen: man hat einen Topf auf dem Herd stehen und nach und nach werden immer weitere Zutaten beigefügt. Natürlich wird hier klar, dass das Volumen des Topfes nur für eine gewisse Menge ausreichend ist. Und was passiert, wenn der Topf zu voll ist? Er kocht natürlich über und genauso kann man es auch mit den Emotionen beschreiben. Hat der Mensch einmal so viele Gefühle in sich hinein gefressen, ohne sie vorher ausleben zu können, so staut sich im Inneren eine Wut an, wenn nicht sogar Hass der irgendwann raus gelassen werden muss.
Hass ist also nicht nur eine Emotion die einfach entsteht, but is caused by several factors. The feelings of sadness, anxiety, loneliness, envy, anger, disgust, love and joy and also carry a large contribution to this. Most of these are previously combined in a variety of ways before you really only beginning to "hate". Many hate feelings are based on situations in which you did not get what you wanted. This suggests a strong link between sadness and anger, and loneliness could also play a role. A good example of this is that one falls in love with a man, but who does not share this feeling with you. It is lonely and seek so much to one person, so that even after her mourning, envious is on the the person of people, it is angry at yourself because you will not get, and eventually developed a hatred feeling. Or who knows this sentence does not it? "I hate him because he did this to me," So that means that we have in turn developed to dislike someone who has something done what we liked not at all personally. There are women who hate someone that he just took off after sex the next morning and has simply left alone back, again and people hate others because as a crime of violence perpetrated on them. This hatred can now turn, however, against other people or against themselves addressed.
However, as is the hatred expressed in different people, is a matter of temperament of each. For as varied as the wildlife is so colorful, the individual characters of the people. While a lamb rather calm and collected grazing on pasture, the wolf hunts its prey in flight, and cruelly biting they end up dead It's just different, never the same, there are always differences. While the lambs remain stuck on the run from their feelings rather in the barbed wire and get hurt here, the wolves go hunt actively inflicting harm to others. I think that with this metaphor, the expression of hatred best illustrate can, furthermore I have been in my life, only these two forms occurred.
The wolf may as strong as he is to show no weakness. let him seem vulnerable feelings must be hidden and the strong, powerful emotions such as courage, power and assertiveness must be emphasized enormous. Thus he is under constant pressure, which often ends in aggression and rage. Even a wolf that wants to be the strongest and best of all, feels weak and the vulnerable feelings just like everyone else.
trying to turn a lamb To escape it runs and runs his feelings like this, it really does not want to have. It is rather quiet, shy and has difficulty talking with other arge of the problems. I would think that this type more prone to depression than others. Eventually, however, the sheep arrived at the end of the pasture, where it becomes entangled in his feelings, often they give themselves to blame. "We would not want to run into the barbed wire, I stupid lamb!"
Then there is the "wolf lamb". An animal which has the characteristics of both individuals. This comes closer to how the current emotional state of the Wesens ist. Manchmal neigt es dazu ein Wolf zu sein, manchmal aber auch ein Lamm. Dieses Tier kenne ich nur zu gut, denn ich selbst bin ihn auch verfallen. Hass wird hierbei häufig in einer Art von Gefühlschaos ausgedrückt, in einer Minute ist man so voll Wut, sodass man sein Opfer am liebsten totbeißen möchte, in der anderen Minute sucht man den Fehler in sich selbst und verfängt sich.
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Hass ist ein Cocktail, der aus den Menschlichen Emotionen und Erfahrungswerten gemischt wird und wendet sich gegen alles was den eigenen Wünschen krass widersteht. Er kann sich derart steigern, dass er nach the destruction of the enemy's demands. This can be a different person and to act themselves. Xenophobia, self-loathing and hatred for love are some good examples, as well as situation-related hatred. You should pay more attention to this issue calmly, as the Wolves hunt in our world the lambs.
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